nobody's perfect

rumors are an interesting thing. even more so when they turn out to be true. the question on everyone's mind is: "who's side do you take?". i encountered this question in the past few days. at first i thought i knew, but it turns out i didn't. let's take the example from last post, which has quite a lot to do with the situation. the player and the former best friend. after hearing one side of the story, the generic one, you might think you know who you side with. the truth is, you don't until you've heard both, and i've come to a conclusion; side's can't be taken. everyone in a situation like this did something wrong, and also had something wrong done to them. nobody is perfect and makes the right decisions all the time, and when you judge someone for a making a wrong decision, you're being the biggest hypocrite ever. why should you torment one person because she made a stupid choice? for all you know, you could be the one being tormented next week about a dumb choice you made. what goes around comes around, and if you can't forgive and forget today, then you can't expect forgivness and forgetfulness when your time comes. and the time will come. for everyone.